Femdom Persuasion

Wonder what my life is really like?
Let me tell you about it.

These things just happen to me, I end up exercising my power all the time. Met a new guy in line for the bar last week, and within 5 mins he begged me to slap him in the face. I did, and it was so fun, I did it again. Judging from the look in his wide eyes, I think he liked it too. We went inside and he proceeded to buy me drinks all night. Men seem to love a little rough treatment from me, what can I say!

Oh, yeah, and I didn’t feel like taking him home. Just used him for the drinks ;)

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In line at a fetish party in London, England last month, I had the absolute devilish pleasure of slathering a party-going male in my lipstick. He was worried about not being dressed up enough to get into the party, so me and a girlfriend feminized him right then and there, and of COURSE he got into the club dressed up with whatever was in my purse. I always know what to do when it comes to dressing up sissy sluts, whether they like it or not!

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Occasionally I’ll attend play parties, femdom events, and they are TOO much fun and feel so natural to me. Having men dressed in maid outfits, hanging my coat, fetching me a drink and entertaining me all night. Just think about the fact, that you now know, that somewhere out there in the world, I’m actually in the room with some of you. Wouldn’t it absolutely destroy you with horniness to see me walk in the door?

It’s great to know kinky people. Any chance to relax and be served while getting to tease the hell out of them in a hot latex skin tight dress? I know, reader, that you could only dream. Dream to have me tell you to sit at my feet while we watch a misbehaving servant slave caned inched from your face, while they confess their sins to the room. Or, perhaps, to be that servant slave… over my knee in front of all the other party goers… is it really punishment? Or your greatest fantasy?

-LB

LATEX 101

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I have been purchasing, wearing, enjoying and fetishizing latex for close to 10 years. The opinions in this blog are just that - my opinions and experiences with this shiny rubber fabric. These aren’t hard and fast rules, merely just a recounting of my history with latex, for beginners. I hope it helps you to learn more about this amazing textile!

How to buy it:

I have lots of favourite latex designers online, which can be found on my previous blog, “My Favourite Latex and Fetish Wear Designers”. The best way to know if a product will fit you, is to reference the size chart on each website. Don’t just guess your measurements - if you are going to invest in latex, which can get expensive, you’ll want to choose pieces by carefully comparing sizing using a measuring tape. For me, I am lucky - I fit almost always a standard, off-the-rack size medium. I’ve also always found that, with standard sizing, if you are off by an inch or two, it won’t matter - size down so the latex fits tightly, instead of loose. Once you throw on some lube, you won’t even notice the difference since latex is stretchy.

How to wear it:

There are 2 main ways to aid the dressing of latex: powder, or lube. Both are correct. Choosing one or the other really just comes down to preference, and what you like better/find more comfortable. Note that you’ll find that imagining the latex like pantyhose while putting it on, and bunching it up first while slowing releasing it over the skin, a lot easier/safer for the garment than just pulling it on willy-nilly. I prefer lube, and I will get into that below:

Powder: When a new garment comes in the mail, it typically arrives clean and lightly powdered with talc or baby powder. You can add some more, by rubbing onto your skin in the places the latex will touch (for example, there is no need to powder your arms if you are wearing a halter top style dress) and pulling the garment on that way. The powder creates a “slip” effect on the surface of the garment/skin, and you’ll find it easy to pull into place. It will look a bit dulled with the powder, but it can easily be shined up with silicone lube.

Silicone Lube: Coat the inside of the garment, and the body parts the latex will cover, with lube. (You can also rinse the garment with Vivishine instead). I use a LOT. I prefer to be reeeally juicy, as I find it the most comfortable and sensually pleasing. It is easy to apply using the pantyhose method of “bunching it up and pulling on slowly.” Careful as to not get lube everywhere because things can get slippery really quick! Do NOT pour/put lube on the inside of an enclosed foot/sock/catsuit, it will be like the worst case of ice skating that you cannot control. Seriously, even taking a few steps will be impossible! If I am going out for the night to a fetish party in a catsuit with enclosed feet, sometimes I will actually wear a light pair of socks under the suit to keep from getting slippery later in the night.

Pros and Cons of each: In my experience, I much prefer lube over powder. I find powder doesn’t move with the body, and can cause the garment to “catch” and tug in weird spots. This is one of the prime causes of tears/rips, especially in a new piece. I have also experienced “powder soup” later in the evening - as you start to sweat, if the powder has been applied liberally you could run the risk of sweating out the powder, and it will appear as white, frothy liquid/lines, etc. Not sexy. Also, if you are going to shine it with silicone lube anyway, you might as well do it all over! The only downside to lube is, that it is more messy/gets on things more easily and is harder to get off. But it is definitely more comfortable, and more conducive to protecting the latex from tearing, as it can’t “catch” on the skin.

A note about temperature: One of the most common FAQ’s I get when wearing a catsuit is, “Isn’t it hot in there?” Actually, no - not usually. Latex takes on the temperature of the environment. I prefer wearing latex at night outdoors in spring, cool summer nights, or fall, or in a temperature controlled indoor room. If it is cold, it will feel cold, and mildly wet. If it is hot, it gets HOT - direct sunlight can bake you alive very quickly, especially black latex, if it’s really hot outside. I’ve never had a problem with wearing a catsuit out dancing for up to 8 hours, it’s usually quite fun and feels amazing! Just stay hydrated because YES - you WILL sweat. There is no way around it. Just accept it and let it happen. There is no way (that I have found) to stop the sweating, and I don’t think its a big deal honestly. It has never bothered me because I’m not super sweaty naturally. Embrace your own dewy-ness!

How I clean and store my latex: Because I often use lots of lube on my pieces, they need a nice thorough washing. I peel off my latex in the shower, and set it on a hanger while I use a nice exfoliating scrub on my skin to remove the silicone lube. I really like Lush’s “Cup of Coffee” scrub, but anything with exfoliation will do. After I’m all clean, I fill a bucket with warm/hot water and add a liberal amount of plain old dish soap to the water. I like lemon Sunlight, etc. anything that cuts grease. Add the garment to the water, swirl around, and let sit for 10 mins. Swirl again, leave for 10 more minutes. Once this is done, take the piece out and rinse it again with hot water, and hang dry.

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Once it has dripped dry overnight, I place it in a clear plastic bag, ALWAYS one garment only per bag/on a hanger, and hang it in my cool, dark closet. Sealing it off from excess air and making sure it is not touching other colours/pieces will prevent oxidization, staining, etc.

Staining: The lighter a colour is, the more prone it can be to staining. Black is a great beginner piece/colour, because its virtually impossible to “stain” it, while white can be extremely difficult to maintain over time. Keep all latex away from metals, particularly pennies/coins, and cheap costume jewelry. If a piece touches these things, it can quickly turn a rancid colour of light brown, and it can be very hard to remove/save the piece. It has happened to me more times than I’d like to admit. If this happens, I like to use my “magic closet method” - make sure the piece is clean and dry, coat it in a liberal amount of talc/baby powder, wrap it in a towel and leave it in the back of your closet for 1 month-2 years. I have been lucky enough to diminish stains quite a lot using this method, but I can’t make any guarantees. Alternatively, do not leave a garment wet for an extended period of time, as it can cause it to mold, and this is equally as impossible to remove. It can leave big black or brown spots… and it’s MOLD. Gross!

What to do if a piece rips: Rips happen. It’s another inevitable part of owning and wearing latex. I have ripped my pieces more times than I can count, and I also notice it can cause an extreme emotional reaction when people see it happen. I don’t really get worked up about it, because it’s no biggie and it can ALWAYS be fixed. When it happens, take off the piece immediately, no matter what. If you leave a ripped piece on, it can only get worse, and a small hole is easier to fix than a huge tear. Wash the garment normally, and either take it to a local fetish shop to be repaired (usually they can do this for a small price) or learn to do it yourself! KinkEngineering has a great, cheap repair kit on their website here and “how to repair latex” is easy to google. I promise, it’s not the end of the world!

That’s all I can think of for handy tips and tricks for how to buy, wear, wash, store and repair your latex clothing! If you have any further questions, feel free to leave them below and I will do my best to answer them :)

My Year of Service to Goddess LatexBarbie, and Beyond - by BarbiesPupper

“Ever since i can remember, i have been a submissive. As a child i never really understood why in fairy tales the hero would try to escape the clutches of the Evil Queen. As i grew up i learned to fit in among alphas but i never really felt myself. i began to explore my feeling on the internet. i gravitated towards the mainstream sites but in time they seemed increasingly formulaic and forced. i craved something more real, more authentic, more personal.

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i had sampled clip sites like clips4sale and IWantClips but nothing really resonated. Then one day i stumbled across Goddess LatexBarbie. A vision in purple hair and bubble gum coloured cat suits. At that moment i knew i had discovered what i was looking for. At first i was too nervous to approach. i bought clips. A couple at first but then more and more. At this time i particularly remember the clip series “Heavy Rubber Mindfuck" as speaking to me. i began to tribute in the hope of getting noticed. i knew i had to make this work.

i took a deep breath and applied to be a slave. i didn’t know what to expect and in hindsight i was horribly ill-prepared. The first few weeks were tense. i had not yet learnt to fully surrender control. i half expected to be conned, to be gradually drained and then be left out in the cold. However, Goddess Latexbarbie was patient, breaking me in slowly so i didn’t spook a bolt. i am grateful, that she saw potential. Gradually i became more relaxed. She would tell me about her kinky adventures going to fetish parties and i began to realize, she was real. i had nothing to fear but my own insecurities. i had learned to give in, i had learned to be myself.

My training started with edging and bingeing. 6 or 8 hour session of edging and draining. To my joy, She has put me on many training schedules. i have probably spent about a third of the year either undergoing butt plug training; on a forced orgasms schedule; following a cum eating programme or in chasity. Goddess LatexBarbie always keeps me busy.

In particular happy memory was when She put on a forced orgasm schedule to make myself addicted to feet. Before that i was never titillated by them nor excited by the fear of facing them. Totally ‘meh'. However during the programme my body gradually associated feet to the pleasure and my mind changed. Now i react on instinct. i love how my Goddess has changed me for her amusement. The cum eating schedule unfortunately didn’t have the same success. Maybe i need more practice!

When not being forced to have orgasms She have sentenced me to chastity. Goddess has helpped, building me up slowly from a chastity virgin to a whole month in Loctober. i love wearing a constant reminder of my submission to Her.

Goddess LatexBarbie also releases many challenges whether as part of a clip, as part of a challenge series or just when she feels like it. i have completed many sissy tasks. She has opened up a part of me that i have previously repressed. Cock and ball torture challenges are always very exciting seeing what she has in store next. Another memorable task was to give myself a vodka enema. It was a weird fun kind of drunk but i suffered the following day!

i have had the privilege to both purchase things for and from my Goddess. Early on in my training, after a bathtub photo shoot i naively said i would love to drink her dirty bathwater. “That can be arranged...” came the reply. The taste was soapy but i prized that it was infused with her essence. i have also acquired two pairs of panties and two socks from Her that i sniff regularly. In the other direction i have had the honour of buying Goddess LatexBarbie both fetish and vanilla clothes, as well as apartment furnishings. She has such great taste, it’s such a pleasure. She has a genuine passion for latex and always like the same things as i do. It is satisfying to know she loves wearing them as much as i like looking at them. i always get a buzz when i see her in something from me.

Over the year she has helped me develop a nightly ritual. First i worship in front of the shrine i have built. i sniff her panties, recite my mantras before kissing a photo of her ass. i put on my sissy Barbie pyjamas and goes to sleep. If She does not disturbed by a 3am Kik message i wake up to an alarm of her voice reminding me of my place.

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Day to day i communicate to Goddess via Kik. We speak roughly every other day, sometimes just for a quick check in other times it can lead to a session. i have Skyped a few times. In my first session i was so nervous i struggled to climax. Only later did i discovered she had planted suggestions against me to torture me. i have phoned both to talk and to be ignored. i love just listening in while she goes about her day.

i watch all her clips. She always hit the mark. It’s exciting to be introduced to a new fetish i didn’t know i had. Goddess LatexBarbie has a kinky instinct ready to lead me astray. i follow her adventures on iwantfanclub and Twitter (and i look forward to LatexBarbieland.com) She lives an amazing kinky life going to fetish parties and latex photo shoots. Over the years have seen her travels to Las Vegas (AVN), Hong Kong, and a road trip of America.

There have of course been times when i have struggled. Sometime i have been busy at work or dealing with personal issues and just want to rest. However She can be just what i need to take my mind of things. On a couple of occasions i have freaked out a little but She has always respects my limits and has help me regain my composure.

Overall it has been amazing, eventful year. It is always exciting wondering what She has in store next or planning the next binge. The anticipation (sometime deliberately drawn out by Her) can be the most exciting bit. i have learnt so much about myself. It has improved me as a person, from respect and patience to traits not immediately associated with submission such as being proactive and confident. A friend of mine told me that he notice i have really started to taken control over the past year. i couldn't help but smile.

Next year i hope to continue my training with Goddess, going harder and for longer. i wish to build on our trust and respect to engage in more intense play. i use to think i had an imaginative kinky mind but Goddess Latexbarbie is so much deeper. i have just earned the right to wear Goddess Latexbarbie collar, i know i am just beginning my journey. “ - BarbiesPupper

Recognition for LatexBarbie

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I have so much fun creating visionary, bold experiences in the realm of fetish, fantasy, and femdom! It is the joy of my life, and I have been lucky enough to have received some recognition thus far. I am just getting started, and there will be more trophies to line my walls soon!

FetishCon Awards 2016, nominated for “Best Fetish Cam Girl”

IWantClips 2017 Photo Contest, Winner for “Best Nature Lover” $1000 Prize Winner

IWantClips 2017 Photo Contest, Winner for “Best Nature Lover” $1000 Prize Winner

IWantClips Halloween 2017 “Most Creative Clip” $500 Winner - Living Dead Girl

IWantClips Halloween 2017 “Most Creative Clip” $500 Winner - Living Dead Girl

IWantClips 2018 Photo Contest, Winner for “Pool Party” $1000 Prize Winner

IWantClips 2018 Photo Contest, Winner for “Pool Party” $1000 Prize Winner